From the Single Mom's Law School Experience, then "Almost Attorney" to FINALLY an Esquire!: The fall out

Thursday, September 30, 2010

The fall out

The fall out of not passing the bar has been really rough. Emotionally, physically and just in every aspect. The worst part is trying to figure out how to make a living for myself. I have consulted two temporary agencies where I have been told that I am over qualified. So basically I would need to lie about my last seven years of education, and last three years of work, in order to get a job. I am stuck in this quandry of what to do.

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FAQ

Lots of people ask me: how do you do it? How do you attend law school and raise a child alone? My answer is simply that you prioritize. You approach school as an 8 to 5 job. I take Friday evenings and Saturday's off. Study a bit on Sundays. For me this works. It means not being a part of the "social" things at school, and that time between your classes is in the library studying. But that's okay. You will have different goals then the students who are single with no children.

How do you afford it? Student loans........yes, you heard me. My reasoning is that my earning capacity will double, but likely triple, which means that I can afford to take on the debt to pay for a better future for my daughter and I.

Does you daughter resent you studying? No. Sometimes she gets frustrated, but she really does understand the bigger picture. She is my biggest supporter. I have learned to include her by taking her to class with me when I can, by having her help me study with flash cards, and by taking her to appropriate events at school. In fact, I did an incoming student panel one year, and the administration of the school had her speak as well. We are a team, and that includes this journey.