From the Single Mom's Law School Experience, then "Almost Attorney" to FINALLY an Esquire!: Christmas Break

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Christmas Break

My daughter is a dancer and I have spent the last 2 weeks taking her to dress rehearsals, recitals, more rehearsal's and company shows. She has been dancing for five years now. This season is always stressful because of the holidays in general, but then finals. While I was doing this round, it occurred to me, this was it, the last Christmas season that I had to juggle school, work, finals, and dance..................what a relief. I am so not kidding! Above is a picture of her dance troupe. Lovely ladies, I know.

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Lots of people ask me: how do you do it? How do you attend law school and raise a child alone? My answer is simply that you prioritize. You approach school as an 8 to 5 job. I take Friday evenings and Saturday's off. Study a bit on Sundays. For me this works. It means not being a part of the "social" things at school, and that time between your classes is in the library studying. But that's okay. You will have different goals then the students who are single with no children.

How do you afford it? Student loans........yes, you heard me. My reasoning is that my earning capacity will double, but likely triple, which means that I can afford to take on the debt to pay for a better future for my daughter and I.

Does you daughter resent you studying? No. Sometimes she gets frustrated, but she really does understand the bigger picture. She is my biggest supporter. I have learned to include her by taking her to class with me when I can, by having her help me study with flash cards, and by taking her to appropriate events at school. In fact, I did an incoming student panel one year, and the administration of the school had her speak as well. We are a team, and that includes this journey.